Children’s Role in a Family

This article is about the children in homes where Parents are separated due to any reasons. Its effects on their behavior and attitudes in life.

The function of the family consists in the begetting of children. Protecting them especially when they are dependent and providing them with the suitable opportunities for growing into healthy and adjust adult.

It has been found that children from conflict and tension striking families have far less chance of marital adjustment as compared with children from tension free and happy homes.

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A child hailing from a home where parents are educated have good habits and attitude. They have healthy social and cultural interest. Which is likely to develop in to a responsible and healthy adult.

What is a Happy Home?

When Husband comes home and your kids, stop doing everything start bounding at the door, throwing themselves to the father. If it all happens with you.. then you are a happy family.

Still, if your children are older for this or you don’t have children. You can do this by just giving a warm welcome to your husband. Just try to avoid any heavy topics during that time, no talk of bills, Aunt Helen’s upcoming visit, or an untimely phone call from our children’s teachers.

 Tension Environment at Home

Tension at home during early childhood has also been found in later year to have effect their married life. It has thus been found that children from conflict and tension striking families have far less chance of marital adjustment as compared with children from tension free and happy homes.

Broken Homes

A broken family is a family that has split or separated due to a variety of reasons. This leads to children being raised by single parents, stepparents or Guardians. These kind of homes which have the most unfavorable influence on the life and personality of the Children is the broken home. It is indeed and unfortunate home in which separation takes place between husband and wife because of death of any one of them. Parents in such a broken home may apparently be living together but they are separated in love and mutual understanding. Such a depressing discouraging and revolting home atmosphere besides endangering the mental health of the child is also most liable to drag him into anti social behavior.

Their Injurious Effect on the child

Imagine the feeling of an unfortunate child at home where neither of the two all powerful has the slightest sense of using authority temperately. These kind of children usually perform poorly in their studies. They also suffer bad health and fall into addiction. Also they usually gets involve in crimes and can be misused by others. They face hard time at their schools and in finding jobs. Studies also says that girls from divorced families are more likely to become teenage mothers. And this is a real broken heart situation.

A Balanced Parenting

The only reasonable pattern of parenting is one which is balanced. It is neither too relaxed now too strict. A healthy home discipline combines the demand of affection and control in a manner suiting the temperament of the individual child.